Life - Sexuality  

Posted by Gaga n Dom


You know what?
I am a real masochist. Not sexually. Just in life.

Why? I date psychos. Yeah - totally psychotic girls.
That is not really correct - I don't date them - I stay with them.

Lets rewind. First stop Julia. Oh this tall, red hair, intellectual witch! She was my first love - and the first girl who ripped my heart out of my chest. I still remember it. It has to be 17 years ago or so. We were good together - we laughed often and our sex - well from my side I liked it.

And then I found out, that she slept with a class mate. Was just "inter-changed".
She gave me before a hard time - was jealous [ok - she wasn't a crazy jealous bitch as the ones after her] - but yeah - a jealous girl, which then betrayed me - the story of my life.

Well - things like that should only happen one or two times; should they?

Next stop - Stephanie. Oh Steph - the stuff, dreams are made from. She wasn't psycho- she wasn't jealous - but totally out of my league. In the hours we had together, she put my world upside down; she had the most amazing body I have seen and the most amazing tits I have touched. And she left me with a broken heart - which didn't healed for years. 

In this time I was a bit a wildcard - I picked any girl, which was at disposal and dropped them as fast as I picked them… There was a stalker - which told me, that she is pregnant [we used a condom] - and she really haunted me - totally obsessed - don't know anymore, how I could got rid of her...

But then came Susi. She was a beautiful girl - however she had a character like a dude. We were most of the time a great team - when we didn't argued about small things I can nowadays not even remember. We were long together - 3 years and I left her for a short tartan skirt, a white slip - all on a girl which resembled more an Amazon than a normal girl. She was so juicy - but totally an office slut. Hey - her breakup brought my life in completely new depth: I was in hospital because of a myocarditis and a thorax inflammation - yeah it was quite serious - and the first thing what she did, when she called me at the hospital was to put our relationship to an end.

Hence she was maybe not the most typical crazy psycho bitch in my life - but surely she tried to kill me [softly…].

This was to be honest quite nasty. I don't really remember, which girls came then… 

But then came Doro. Wow - this Polish girl, which was gorgeous and big breasted, I got to know in a nightclub I worked in. I still remember, how amazing the first couple of dates were with her. She was taking my will in storm. And she changed as fast into a totally crazy bitch. Yeah - like totally controlling and consistently obnoxious in her behavior. At the beginning it was still ok. I thought I can adapt. And she was working for an event company - means, she didn't had a 9to5 job, which worked pretty good with my life as hospitality and bar slut. 

However then she got a job at a car-finance bank. Lets get to the point - she complaint, about my work times; she was jealous like hell - due to "so many changes you have in gastronomy"; she fucked with a fellow colleague an insurance sales man.

The only fun was, that this guy was even too afraid, to get face to face to me, when I rang at his door, to pick up Doro. Yes - police was involved and a very nasty breakup. Though still remember her super soft skin and her amazing plum like pussy!
This breakup was epic. A lot of broken heart, broken dreams and especially craziness. 

This was a climax [or negative climax - however you like to see it].

But I am so lucky - another climax to a climax closed up:

Helli - or officially Helga [yeah this is a horrible German name - but it was her], was a girl I met in a obnoxious nightclub. 
First she was easy and cool. Not the most beautiful girl I have ever dated; but kinda a good change… What really trapped me was, that she was first of all so relaxed - similar to Susi - however without the fights. So overall I was pretty happy - and she was at least svelte.
I met her at a horrible nightclub- which was the only venue with music opened very late [or early in the morning]. She smiled at me… I had nothing else to do.

All positive points just broke away, when she became pregnant. First of all her easy mind. She became controlling, jealous, a total crazy bitch. Lets call it like that: worst as Doro [you see, what I try to do here…?].

When she got our daughter, she didn't changed [however the small package was a treat]. She changed from free mind to conservative, crazy family bitch. And I was wrong at this place. 
One more "accident": my son - and the relationship was over. 

And then came my time in Berlin - not the best time I had - the separation was eating my resources as well as my positiveness. I met some girls - however it was a inconsistent time - nothing was really for real - until Sarah came across.

A couple of friends and me went regularly to some pretty low key strip bars. Berlin is not known for glamour… but the girls were cheerful and distracted me from thinking too much about real life relationships. I even tried to date a stripper [unbelievable that a girl can be more unreliable than me - but while we planned to meet each other, she always broke our dates]. But one day one girl, which wasn't really my type - however she told me, that her blond friend would totally have a crush on me.

Hence I talked to her - we met and the craziest bitch ride in my life started [and kept on for almost 8 years until today].

She started as coke head - no, not my coke [which is Coca Cola] - no real coke - white powder, snow. Let me tell you, she was really bad on this.

And then she started with this totally crazy jealousy; I remember until today - I had a drink with friends, was a bit tipsy [ok - I was rather drunk] - and was just on the restroom when she called me. And I told her, that I was already in the metro [drunken lies]. She never forgiven me for this… and became crazier and crazier.

When I went to Dubai for work, I offered her to come with her [yes I meant it, but I thought, that she would never come with me - we knew each other for a couple of month]- for my surprise she came with me. And her craziness reached new heights. I could not go for piss, without her checking on me and presume, that I text a different girl.
Yes - I wasn't an angel [see previous posts], but she totally screwed my mind.

And the craziest thing of her [which makes her the queen of all "craziest" bitches] that she is now totally changing her attitude upside-down. Having a electronic affaire with another one - still checks on me and presumes, that I am doing no good; is annoyed by my assumptions and annoyed of being suspected [which had a real reason]…

And? I love her. I really do.

I guess I am really having the crazy bitch virus.
Cannot live without them - typical can't live with them - can't live without them.
However most other girls were just boring to me. 

To be honest - except some […] most "normal" girls were plain stupid - and I thought, that I would get brain cancer, if I would stay with them. 
But there were also a lot of girls who were attractive and intelligent and normal and I was just not able to be alert enough to keep it rollin'.

My fault? Maybe I just didn't met a normal but fascinating girl - but this is anyway just theory - I am together with a crazy one - and if it is about me, our relationship will go on for the next 40 years.



Is she cheating???  

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Now the whole cheating - or no cheating thing started [that is at least, what she explained to me], when Sarah had a serious skin desease. She was whining the whole day, and to be honest her behavior couldn't be fully subscribed with iffy. She was really nasty! 

So - I left her alone. I didn't cooked much for her, I didn't helped her with her things and only drove her reluctantly to the hospital.
She spent thousand of dirhams on a specialty doctor... and was nasty...

Well - on my side, it was like that: even much longer time ago - more than 4 or 5 years - I developed quite a bad depression. This all peaked, when I was working at the Grand Hyatt Dubai - around 2 1/2 years ago.

It was not pleasant - I didn't went to a psychologist - as I thought I could simply not afford this. Insurances don't pay in the ME for whacky doctors.

She actually dissembled interest. Told me, if I would know, what she can do, she would do it.
Well the only thing I wanted is a caring partner - and this unfortunately she wasn't able to give.
As always, she was short tempered, sarcastic, challenging, nasty... nothing new.

I finally kinda fixed my condition, with... ignorance. 
But when she became sick, the sleeping depression [well I had depressions, but they were not life-threatening] broke out and I tried to fight it as usually - with ignorance.

This is about it.

Now excuses and accusations are moving back and forth between us. She is telling me, that it makes her anxious, that I went on her computer - I am telling her, that she does that 7 years long. She told me, that I had some messages with girls - I tell her, that her sex messages are much worse.

At the end, she is annoyed and I am totally clueless, what to do with me and what to think!

Funny thing is, that I don't want to reproach all of this. But I want to talk about my feelings [oh - I have to be very sick - this is so not me].

She just don't want to do her life - with or without me - and I cannot understand this. I would like to be with her, however not with these therms.

Sex Messages - in a blackberry  

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It is... difficult - it really is.

For the moment I am wrangle with myself. Everything seems different. Everything in our relationship is on the edge.

It all started, when I broke my own rules.

Truth has to be told: One thing is really important for me: privacy.
Even in a relationship I believe in the inviolability of your personal belongings - be it eMails, mobile, computer, mail and so on.

In the more than 7 years we are together, Sarah consistently violated this. And she always explained, that there were reasons - she consistently found something...

Well - one time, she was in Germany [and I have to say, that it was not a leisure trip - she went to the gynecologist for misc. reasons] and I send a message to my ex-ex-ex-es [or so], that I still think about her and miss her. You can imagine the circus, when this came out...

And then there was the occasion, I was working in Russia, and joked with my colleague - that I cannot hold myself because of the Russian beauties [and believe me - it was just a stupid adage] and she went through the roof.

Yes - I wasn't necessary an angel!

As she was so jealous [and told me about her broken trust] I was suspicious... I had the same thing with Doro one of my most horrific relationships; she cheated at the end on me...

But dear Sarah seemed to be faithfully. In between I looked at her computer, and it never made any problems.

Until a couple of months ago.

Her Blackberry rang and I picked it up - in this occasion I had no intend to check on her.
And I played around with it [I hate Blackberries - they seem so pre-iPhone and complicated] and accidentally encountered a message.

I tell you - this message was not at all for trusty ingenuous eyes. I read, kinda sex-chat. I can only say: Hardcore! Like: "I fuck you hard into your dripping pussy" and shit...

You can imagine that I was not very happy. I really fell out of the sky - not that our relationship was close to win "the best relationship award" - but I was everything but prepared for this.

We had a fight. I moved due to my new job to Abu Dhabi and our contact became more infrequently.
And she was defensive like hell. And then she protected all her gear, that I could not access it.

Then during a couple of weeks our relationship went up and down; but finally she promised that she did wrong, and that she stopped the whole thing [oh I forgot, there were also some emails and chats with her exes, saying, that she still missed their sex and so on... even worse].

And what should I tell you- last week I visited her - and as she met a friend in vain, I stayed in her apartment and went on her laptop. Originally it was not intended - the internet was not working and I wanted to check, if her PC was working - but then the ugly jealousy crawled on me and as her PC was no more protected I checked her mails.

Let me say - I virtually fell deeper than her apartment in the 27th floor wold allow.
There were again these messages. Again this sexual stuff. Again the same guy [Derek].

I have to say, that I totally lost it. I called her several times, shouted at the phone, tumbled around - party insane - but overall not sane at all.

We had a fight at the phone, she was defensive [how can you do this? - Me???] I went out, I had actually still to pay some money into my account so I went to the bank - and lost my car key within 10 meters from the bank to the car [or vice versa]. Stayed on the pavement, in the car, in the bank around 2 hours until my car rental guy Asif found the key under the seat [I swear - I looked there several times].
At the end, this experience calmed me that much down, that I could get back to her.

The problem: she told me, that parts of the messages [which were sent from Sarah to Sarah] she never received or never wrote. It is kinda ghost story [even the messages before to her exes she told me the same thing].
And now? I have really big trouble to trust her.

She seems not to admit - not everything - or not most of it.

This is enough for this post - more to come... stay tuned...


  

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Sun tanning craziness of some respective females!  

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Hey - I cannot believe it!

She is spending money, to lay on sun beds... in Dubai [you know - the desert city with >350 days sun in the year].

Well I knew it before - but Gaga just told me, how much she is spending: around AED 50 for 5 min!!!

Well I have a natural tan - but even if not, I could never imagine, to spend EUR 10 for 5 min! 5 min! FIVE MINUTES !

I might be too conservative... or too much a nitpicker... but this sounds just crazy!

New Japanese ultra premium fruit shop in Dubai  

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Dubai is a crazy world sometimes. Well especially TimeOut here in Dubai is strange.

These guys are always bitching around, that the restaurants and bars are too expensive [well they are most of the times in 5* hotels and for that quite ok priced], the quality mediocre and well they are always pointing out to the cheapest joints...

On the other hand, they have the guts to write up an article about a new Japanese fruit shop.
You still missing the point? Point is, that the fruits are extremely expensive...

Means AED 60 [more than Eur 10] for a Persimmon [one piece, not a truck load] or almost 300 Arabian bucks [around Eur 55] for one melon!

To be honest - I understand the Japanese approach to food, and that they are celebrating the freshest and most perfect! But if TimeOut is picking up this story it just feels... wrong! Really wrong...

What do you think? And will you go there the next time to make some shopping?
Please let us know, because than we know, that the crisis is finally over...\

by Dom